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To answer your question, YES, there's an easy way to get both girls' phone numbers. Then call and ask them BOTH to come join you for a cup of tea. Then, over tea you can decide which one you like more. When I've been in situations where I wasn't actually interacting with a woman and laying on the C&F, they've still been acting attracted to me despite the fact that I consciously did NOTHING in these situations.
I've had friends who have been in similar situations report back that sometimes both women will like you... For example: - A bar/restaurant I hit about once a week has a very hot waitress staff, and one in particular is a Pam Anderson clone who's always being stared at and complimented by all the wussy guys.
" and I came right back with "if you're gonna be that forward and flirty with me you could've at least done your hair up a little better" and then it was ON!
- I met some friends for happy hour and a very hot chick was sitting at a table holding some guy's hand.
This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is really an amazing concept. and how guys really believe that they need to do it (or similar things) in order to get a woman's attention in a romantic way.
Here's the bottom line: If you want a woman to think of you as a "lover", then BE ONE.
I'll take them to the grocery store to shop with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and down to the bookstore to buy a book. Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do together, as long as she's with you. She is now hooked more than ever even though she knows I am seeing other people. I have triggered the attraction mechanism and more importantly I know what I did to accomplish that. I know it worked out because I put the proper groundwork in place. ***QUESTION*** Dave, What does it mean when a woman says she wants to "work on herself" before she can have a relationship? I have been getting your emails for about 8 months now I belive and have read your book!
***SUCCESS STORY*** David, Just wanted to say that after reading your material, I experienced a mental shift. Sunday I spent the day with a cute girl who had responded to my internet ad. I played the game---didn't act overly sexually interested, just enough.... By turning my sexual advances on and then off-----it really got to her. Thank you for pointing me in the right direction, I am starting to get it!!! MY COMMENTS: The literal translation for this is: "I DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU, BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU WITHOUT HURTING YOUR LITTLE WUSSY BOY GIRLIE FEELINGS." Any of the following: "I need time alone right now." "I need to find me first." "Let's just be friends for now." .. Just yesterday I was in the store looking at CD's and I noticed these two beautiful girls walking around and they would constantly look over towards me.
They boss them around, make them play by their rules and those girls grow up expecting men to lead them. Leaders get the girl, wussies get to be used and discarded. " once again she looked like she couldn't believe I was talking to her this way.
I now see situations in terms of: was I self-referenced (C & F Man) or externally referenced (wussie boy)? I used the C&F when I could, but basically kept cool. My old self would have foolishly denied her offer---thinking I was the man, thinking I was being chivalrous (how foolish ;). Once back at my place I used the start and stop technique. She would stop my hand from reaching too far so I decided that I wasn't going to push it and that tonight might not be "the night" with her so I was very relaxed. We started making out while saying goodbye----next thing I know , we were in the bedroom. Literally ;) C Fort Lauderdale, Fl Yea, you really are starting to GET IT. This stuff takes practice and real-world experience using it before you really "get it". It's so amazing to actually get out there and SEE results right in front of your eyes. mean: "I DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION." That's the bottom line. Don't be surprised if this same girl either IS or STARTS dating another guy seriously soon. This will help eliminate these types of comments from women once and for all. I'm sitting here thinking about it, and I can't remember a woman saying one of these things to me in YEARS. As I wandered around the store more I noticed that they seemed to always show up wherever I was.
It is now very clear that success in anything comes to leaders not followers and women hate dealing with followers. Too many guys are just too damned overly-analytical, and want to know how to do EVERYTHING before they do ANYTHING. It gets you excited and willing to try more things... If you're hearing this kind of thing often, then you need to take it as a sign that you're not triggering ATTRACTION inside of women... So I stopped them and asked the girl that I was more attracted to "Excuse me but i'm going to have to ask you to stop stalking me." She looked at her friend like 'What is this boy talking about' and then she asked me for my name.
She's been working at least a dozen times that I've been in there but has never acted like she even noticed me until the last time (since I've watched the DVDs) and she kept looking at me, over and over again, despite the fact that I did NOTHING different.
Finally I gave her the "wrinkled brow" suspicious look and she got all self-conscious, said "what?